Anonymous asked: am i weak if i self harm?

you are not weak at all . Everyone has a breaking point . What matters is if you realise you’re breaking and have the strength to ask for help, but not doing so does not make you weak, you are still incredibly strong and the test is whether or not you have to strength to stop if it gets to the point were you have hurt yourself . xx

Anonymous asked: I'm depressed. But when I was with my 2 best friends, I became so happy.. they were always there for me, we made jokes, laugh & talked so much random stuff. But now, both of them are nearly always sad&in a bad mood. I don't get along with them anymore 'cause of that. It makes me even more sad.. I feel sorry for them but we are always arguing 'cause I can't handle this "new situation" .. I asked them but they're like "I'm in a bad mood, don't ask, deal with it!" .. what should I do? :(

You have to put yourself first, I know that sounds selfish but the more you worry, the worse it will get for you. You have to focus on getting yourself better and getting yourself happy . This may mean finding a new set of friends or even just spending some time on your own to gather your thoughts, your friends sound like they are doing it tough themselves so maybe you could work on finding a support system where you can all talk to someone else about whats going on without getting to each other, let me know how you’re going xx